{"id":9,"date":"2014-10-08T15:27:53","date_gmt":"2014-10-08T15:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.evabigonet.com\/?page_id=9"},"modified":"2022-10-23T17:19:49","modified_gmt":"2022-10-23T21:19:49","slug":"home-page","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.evabigonet.com\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Want More Fulfilling Relationships in Your Life?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 28px; color: #5f6a01;\"><\/h1>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong style=\"color: #000000;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-79 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.evabigonet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/Eva_0120-sm-202x300.jpg\" alt=\"Eva_0120-sm\" width=\"202\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evabigonet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/Eva_0120-sm-202x300.jpg 202w, https:\/\/www.evabigonet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/Eva_0120-sm.jpg 337w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px\" \/><strong style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong style=\"color: #000000;\">Laila Eva Bigonet, LICSW \u2013 Authentic Relationships<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0 <em>\u00a0Psychotherapy\u00a0for Individuals and\u00a0Couples\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; color: #000000;\"><em><strong>Certified in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; color: #000000;\"><em><strong>Trained in Discernment Counseling<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Welcome! My name is Eva Bigonet (a.k.a Laila Eva) and I am a therapist in Wellesley, MA. I have dedicated my life to learning how to be in authentic, vulnerable, and loving relationships. I began this journey over three decades ago and today my joy and expertise is helping others; individuals and couples, experience more life quality, joyful living, and love through sharing their\u00a0authentic selves in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>My basic values are\u00a0that people are intrinsically good and our &#8220;badness&#8221; is learned behaviors; adaptations in order to protect vulnerable parts of us. Further, I believe that everyone is doing the best they can in any given moment taking into account their past experiences, current knowledge, and stress level. I believe that people\u00a0are wise and resourceful and already have the answers inside that they are looking for. A trusted other, like a therapist or a close friend, can help draw out what you already know to be your truth. With some support people generally do so much better.<\/p>\n<p>Here is a partial\u00a0list of\u00a0issues of which\u00a0I can be helpful:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li>You and your partner struggle with communication and misunderstandings.<\/li>\n<li>You are a couple on the brink of divorce, but are not sure that is what you really want or is ready for.<\/li>\n<li>You want an intimate partner but keep attracting unavailable prospects.<\/li>\n<li>You feel mistreated in relationships.<\/li>\n<li>You struggle with self-doubt, perfectionism, or a harsh inner critic.<\/li>\n<li>You people please, feel like you have no voice, or have a hard time setting boundaries.<\/li>\n<li>You worry\u00a0about what others think of you and create protective walls to keep you safe\u2026and lonely.<\/li>\n<li>You feel that you\u00a0have lost yourself because you have been\u00a0putting others&#8217; needs before yours for a long time.<\/li>\n<li>You try to fill the emptiness inside by using compulsive behaviors, such as comfort eating, over-exercising, sex, spending,\u00a0abusing substances, or isolation, etc.<\/li>\n<li>You feel depressed, but are not sure why.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I value\u00a0the therapeutic relationship\u00a0as the\u00a0most important factor in successful therapy. Thus, I see my role as a holder\u00a0of safe space where you can experience unconditional regard as you explore your issues in a pace that you set. By identifying beliefs, feelings, unmeet needs, early attachment wounding, and strategies that you\u2019ve learned to cope, you\u2019ll begin to see that your ways of being in relationships make sense. However, they may not give you the love you want. \u00a0As you are witnessed without judgments, my hope is that you\u2019ll feel safe and supported in letting go painful emotions and unhelpful ways of thinking and coping. As you do, you\u2019ll discover, embrace, and begin to express your true needs. You&#8217;ll learn new ways of being and communicating in relationships. You&#8217;ll begin to experience that when you change, others respond differently to you. As a result you feel more empowered, inner peace, joyful, and in charge in\u00a0your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>As a therapist and fellow human being,\u00a0I feel there is no greater honor and privilege than to travel this journey with you.<\/p>\n<p>In gratitude,<\/p>\n<p>Eva Bigonet<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Laila Eva Bigonet, LICSW \u2013 Authentic Relationships \u00a0 \u00a0Psychotherapy\u00a0for Individuals and\u00a0Couples\u00a0 Certified in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Trained in Discernment Counseling Welcome! My name is Eva Bigonet (a.k.a Laila Eva) and I am a therapist in Wellesley, MA. 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